So i met my bf about 3 years ago. He had a girl best friend for 20 years whom he claimed was not interested in him in anyway and they were strictly friends. About 4 months into our relationship, she confessed some sort of feelings for him. She admitted that she was jealous of our relationship and how she felt like he was putting her on the backburner for me. He dumped me and moved in with her 2 weeks later. They were together for about a year. Throughout that year he would text me about how unhappy he was and how he made a mistake and he loved me etc.. but wouldn't leave her. Fast forward a year. They broke up and I was kinda seeing someone. That relationship ended. He and I continued to discuss their relationship and how hurt he was to nit only hurt me, but lose his best friend in the process. We tried again. 6 months in this time. We've discussed marriage, having kids moving in together, everything. Now my lease is up. He has been sending me pics of places for rent for about 2 months now. Now that my lease is up, he doesn't want to move in together and he has a problem with our distance. I have 3 children that I do not want to leave unattended in order to travel over an hour to see him. So he initially agreed to come to me on the weekends, which was fine. Shit hit the fan. I explained how I felt like i wasnt a priority to him and how I was resentful of the fact that he could move a mountain to be with that other girl but wouldn't lift a finger for me. Now he's coming off with shit that don't even make sense, like I dont trust him and I shoukd be over that whole situation with the other girl. I've explained to him that trust was not the issue and that I dont understand why its so hard for him to want to do anything to be with me. Why talk about moving in together and send me pics of places if he wasnt ready.. why dump me and move in with her after 2 weeks but nothing on my end.. we got into a fight and broke up tonight. I dont know what to think. Am i being unreasonable?