Hi

Emmm... so last week, I got my ass grabbed by a stranger in front of a restaurant and no one said anything.

Earlier that same week two men came up to me at another eatery to tease and taunt me.

It didn’t bother me as much at the time but since then, I haven’t been able to sleep

I keep having nightmares of strange men, offering me sex for jobs or to up my grades

I keep crying randomly

I feel so afraid when I go out

And I am pretty sure that right now I hate men, that’s very difficult because my boyfriend is a man. And it’s taking a toll on my relationship.

I think a part of me blames him for being male and not being there at the time.

It doesn’t help that he doesn’t “get it” and thinks I’m being “sensitive” and doesn’t “understand why I’m taking it so deep”

It makes me so so sad.

But at the same time I feel that he’s right and I’m being dramatic

“It’s not like I was raped”

Please girls, help me.

I just want to be okay.