I’m so annoyed with sex with my bf. How to get him to enjoy intercourse more?

He always always always would rather have oral than intercourse. Sometimes he can’t even stay hard during intercourse, and he says it’s because my mouth is “crack cocaine” 🙄

And every time I ride him (which is my favorite position) he’ll say like a million times “I want you to cum in my mouth” Because he wants to 69 🙄 Like he’s so annoying when I’m trying to ride him.

Don’t get me wrong I like receiving AND giving oral. I can orgasm by being eaten out, but I can also orgasm by being on top and I want that more often. But he KILLS the mood when I’m riding and he keeps wanting 69.

It just kind of makes me feel like I have shit pussy. But I know that’s not true, other men have confirmed that lol. And he will be on top of me sometimes but he gets bored fast, wanting my mouth.

I’ve expressed how I feel and I even will say “Im not sucking you this time” but he’s never satisfied until I do and I end up giving in. Not a big deal I guess but it’s just annoying at this point.

How can I get to him to enjoy intercourse with me more?