Tips on natural hair

So I wear a lot of weaves, wigs and braids but lately I’ve been trying to get more in touch with my natural hair. I can’t seem to find any products that are working. I wash my hair, wake up and it’s all dry tangled and mated. I also have a dry scalp. Does anyone know any products that I should try ? So far I’ve only tried the asiam line. I currently use shea moisture as my shampoo/conditioner. Can anyone direct me into some great twist out cream? Moisturizer gels?