So my son is 1 1/2 and we wanted to have another baby. So I got pregnant 🥰

People assume they were accidents? They both were planned. Regardless of the way they were conceived, it doesn’t matter.

Instead of saying something positive, I always here this.

‘Be ready, you think one is hard now you’re going to need all the rest you can get’.

‘Having 2 kids so close is extremely difficult’

‘You’re not going to have any time at all’

‘Once you have this baby, your husband will stop helping out. Happened to me’

It just irritates me. Say congratulations, speak something positive. Being a mother isn’t exhausting to me & I’m so excited to have 2 babies! Yes, I’m going to have to put in more energy. Yes I’m going to lose sleep. But I don’t mind because this is what I wanted. I love being a mother & my husband isn’t going to ‘stop’ taking care of his kids. That’s the most ignorant thing I’ve heard.

Why are people so quick to being negative?

I’m extremely happy & people are just being ugh 🙄 its like they are speaking about their life & they think what is happening to them is what happens to everyone.