I know you guys will say if you have to ask then you're too young, but I'm more so worried about the slut shaming I'll get if people hear that I'm sexually active at 17. My boyfriend is 14 (HE TURNS 15 THIS MONTH!!) and he's went down on me a good couple of times. I decided to get on birth control before I do anything because honestly, I'm really ready and precaution is best. I think he's coming over tonight but I'm not 100% sure. I know you're not supposed to "plan out" losing your virginity or it'll suck lol