This past weekend I met a girl who has been introduced to my friend circle. We were drinking and somehow she end up sharing with me the times she has been assaulted. Both times she was pass out drunk and both time she wake up when the guys started fingered her.

She also told me who the guys were. Turns out one of the guys had try to abuse of me too.

Months ago I was in a party in a friends apartment and this dude keep serving me alcohol and shots, I guess to get me drunk. Luckily I was not alone, more of my friends were there. One of my friends drank too much and pass out, so we decided to go to sleep in one of the bedrooms of the said apartment. When I was sleeping (in the same bed as my other two friends) the guy entered the bedroom and laid beside me and started touching me. I think he thought I was too drunk to react since he was the one serving my drinks. Luckily I have a high alcohol tolerance and as soon as he laid beside me I woke up and when he started touching my leg I jumped off the bed to run to where the rest of the people were. I made sure someone take him out of the bedroom so my friends were ok and I didn’t try to sleep again. I kept awake and alert in case the dude tried to do something again.

The girl that told me the dude put the same move on her. He kept serving her drinks and shots until she passed out. She only wake up when he had his head between her legs and his finger in his ass.

I feel guilty now because when the guy tried to abuse of me months ago I didn’t do anything because I was able to stop him on time. Also I felt that it was my fault. I was the one on the apartment, I was the one who accepted the drinks, I was the one who was sitting beside him and didn’t protest when he came closer (I didn’t think much of it because he new I was gay). My friends told me to forget it and to avoid him and I did exactly that. But now he hurt another girl.

The girl told me she plans to do the same I did, to forget and avoid. She doesn’t want to come forward and I respect her decision but at the same time I don’t want the guy hurting another girl.