Inappropriate babysitter?

Cas • LEO/USMC wife. In over my head.

So a few weeks ago we hired a babysitter for when I go back to work (which is today, btw. SO not ready! 😭) She’s 18 or 19, still pretty young so I’m a little concerned about her reliability and experience.

Anyway she hasn’t even started working for us yet, and within days of hiring her she was already texting my husband (has never once texted me for any reason) asking questions about his job, where he works, says she feels like she can trust him, etc. We both thought that was a little weird but didn’t really dwell on it. Then a few days ago she sent my husband a follow request on Instagram. Just my husband, still no interaction with me. I think she’s being too personal and is going to get inappropriate very quickly. Am I reading too much into this, or would you be uncomfortable as well?

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