Life choices

Josephine

I don't think it's fair that I can't make my on decisions on my body, I wanted to get my tubes tied around the age of 23 because I knew I was definitely no having any children. I didn't see the doctor about it until I was 29-30 years old. Unfortunately my GYN informed me I can't get my tubes tied because I'm to young, or because I may change my mind later down the road and Sue the doctor for doing the procedure.

At the time I was thinking about getting it done I saw a report in a man who was 24 yrs old in Arizona I think who got a vasectomy, I'm like this FUCKING SUCK. I'm grown I know what I want to do with my own body, and I do not need to run it pass my boyfriend, husband or family.

My sister who I lost last year had 6 beautiful amazing children I'm trying to adopt, however out of 6 of them 4 have autism and 2 have ADHD. Seeing my sister go through that it open up my eyes and that was it, plus I went to a gene doctor (sry spelling is not my thing) and because I had to sister who had mental problem my children more than likely will have them. That was the nail that broke the coffin, I was 23 and at that Tim my sister only had 2 children, and her oldest was the worst.

Anyway back to my point, if I want my tubes tied at 24 than I should be able to, it's my choice my body.

Update: I am not 37 years old I have not changed my mind, I do not like birth control or any forms of it because of the scary side effects. I will go back to my GYN doctor and have talk with them and see if the can prescribe something or is surgery the only option to guarantee that I will NEVER EVER get pregnant on purpose or accident. I'll keep you posted.