please help

Emma

i can’t orgasm when having sex with my boyfriend, i always have anxiety about it and i’m bi btw, i’m worried this means i’m lesbian, he turns me on a lot and i like boys more romantically and i like girls more sexually, i mostly cum over girls but if i put myself to it i can cum over boys too, only ones i like though (idk why) . during relationships i always seem to have doubts and my anxiety that causes me to stress and panic about it all, i’m worried all this stress about my sexuality is going to make me fall out of love with him, i’m also worried that maybe my relationship with makes always ends in anxiety and questions about wether i like them is because i’m lesbian, i loveeee him and i don’t know what to do if always feel like i’m lying to myself :(