My husband asked me to ask you this ladies. His daughter birthday is the 6th. Her mom moved her 8hours away (1 way) and is moving her 16hours away (1 way) this summer. We pay for what she needs and when she's here we make sure she has everything she wants and needs. He is wondering if it is his job to spend hundreds of dollars for a birthday party that his ex and her girlfriend is planning. His daughters mom makes the Money. But after bills and paying her we have no money. Not even for food and gas. Is it the daddies duties to be the one to spend hundreds fo there birthday party even though he can't make it because she keeps moving there daughter farther and farther away