Is this wrong? Break up question.

I have been rather unhappy with my relationship for a long time. It's been a long three years. Aside from the fact that he has my heart and I don't want anyone else but him, he ignores my needs and desires. He has gotten so comfortable with me that cuddling , texting and calling is practically gone. He comes by whenever he feels like it and the nights we have together are turning into PlayStation and chill. I'm 29, I desire more at this point. My question is....

Would it be wrong to break up with him, in an attempt to light a fire under his ass? He doesnt want anyone else either. It's just gotten so stagnant and he is impossible to talk to.