so i hooked up with this guy 5 days ago, and before that i haven’t had sex in over two months. so anyways, i gave him head for a while and then he asked me if i wanted to have sex, so i said yes. he was pretty large (bigger than what i’m used to) and he didn’t even touch me before he went in, so he went in basically dry (and we used a condom). when he put it in it hurt SO MUCH. and we stopped after 2 strokes because i couldn’t handle it. and then i ended up giving him head and then he left.

after he left i realized i was bleeding, and i’m not sure if i tore my vag or if it’s like from my hymen?? like i’ve never bled from sex before and i’m scared because im still bleeding a little bit here and there. i’m also on birth control so idk if that has anything to do with it?

i’m also making an appointment to get tested for STIs because all my friends have made me rlly scared that he gave me something now because they said what happened isn’t normal.

i’m so sorry this is so long and might be stupid i’m just stressed out.

i’m also supposed to get my period in 4 days idk if that’s relevant.