He came and I was still dressed

I meet with my neighbor to have sex. We have 13 yrs age difference im 43 he is 30. Teased him a bit then gave him a BJ. So he came but I was not even undressed. He made me feel like I had to leave. So I did.

I texted days after letting him know I was in need. He didn’t reply. 2 days later I ended our encounters with a text. Did I overreact!!!???? Please help.