I feel so confused and emotionally unstable, he accuses me of doing the things to him that he clearly does to me but over time I’m starting to believe he’s actually right and all these problems are my fault. 2 of my ex best friends and my sister has yelled at me for the same things. Is it possible that I’m the real problem or am I just a target for bad relationships and manipulation?

Before anyone says anything, yes I’m making efforts to cut ties with him (again) and I have an appointment on Wednesday with a therapist.