My husband and I have been married for a year and 4 months. I have been off of BC for the same amount of time... We were kind of TTW but also TTC for that entire time.. the last several months we have been TTC more. I am having a really hard time because I feel so scared that one or both of us is having an issue but feel like it's too soon to really check into it.

He smokes a lot of weed and has a very low sex drive. He also vapes. I have gotten him to stop drinking.

I refuse to temp or take OPKs because to me, it makes it more stressful. I look for body signs like moods, CM and other signs and I feel like I know when I ovulate.

My OBGYN was very encouraging.

I thought this was my month with 3 BDs in my time frame(good for us) ......but I'm in a lot of physical period pain. Spotting yesterday. BFN today and spotting.

I just want to cry. How much longer can I do this and watch everyone around me get pregnant?