So I’ve been with my husband for 10 years (5 years married) and after about 6 years together and 2 kids; I’ve grown. I’m not the same person I was when we first met. I’ve grown as a woman and a mother. I do things differently, I’ve learned certain things don’t matter to me anymore (like having a spotless car because I have better things to spend my time on 😩), etc.

What do I do if my husband has not grown, Will not grow, and can careless about growing with me. We’ve talked about it, I’ve expressed this to him, and he constantly states that he’s just how he is gonna be and that’s that. I’m not gonna lie, I have basically grown out of love with him. He has no goals, like buying a house, saving for big trips, etc. His dad skills are lacking. Spends all his time on the computer, watching movies, etc.

It’s making me resent him, and want out of our marriage so I can find someone that has grown up and will match the level that I’m on. Has anyone experienced this ?