Honestly I’m resenting my husband these days, we communicate and I’ve told him how I feel and he will change for a few days and slip right back to his old habits of not helping and going to the bar or sitting around getting drunk and playing poker at night.

I’m in the midsts of some potentially serious health concerns and my car just took a shit and the engine blew up.

I can’t afford to leave him..

But I also don’t know if I would even if I could financially... my two step children’s biological mom died almost 6 years ago and he works 70 hours a week, I’m pretty much their life line and I don’t think I could abandon them.

How do you ladies cope? What would you do?