I saw you today. I saw your red eyes and tear stained faces. I saw the way you held your wife and the marks on you held from trying to hold yourself together too. I saw you leaning on your husband for support while you tried to schedule out appointments you didn't think you'd have to make. I saw you today and my heart broke for you. I was you almost a year ago. I'm sorry you are there now. I wish I could take that pain away and I wish that I could have said something to comfort you in this terrible time. You are my sister and brother in this. You have a lot of us sisters and brothers out here. We are here for you. I know that isn't the same as being able to hold your precious little one in your arms. We only get to hold those babies in our hearts. Know that I now hold yours with mine too. I'm so sorry for your loss.