Why does my boyfriend always want to have sex?

Question

We have been together for over 2 years. At first I just thought it’s because we just started dating, and that he would eventually stop wanting to have sex all the time, but he still wants to have sex everyday almost and sometimes more than once a day. I like having sex, but not everyday and when I tell him I don’t want to he gets upset and sad. I know this sounds ridiculous, but can someone please tell me what I should to get him to understand I do like having sex but not as much as he does.

Answer

He just has a high sex drive and is obviously extremely attracted to you. There’s nothing wrong with him, it’s normal. It’s also normal for you to have a lower sex drive, there’s nothing wrong with that either. Just make it very clear to him that you love him and you are extremely attracted to him, and you love having sex with him… It’s just that your body is a little bit different and does not want it all the time. It doesn’t mean anything about him or your relationship. And if he gets very Upset or tries to make you feel bad or guilty about not having sex every time, then you need to explain to him that you’re not here solely for his sexual pleasure and you need him to respect when you’re not in the mood for sex.￼ if he cannot seem to respect that about you, then you might be with the wrong person. It’s not OK for him to make you feel bad or guilty about this.￼

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There is nothing you can do to change his sex drive. It is perfectly normal for him to want to have sex that often and perfectly normal for you to not. He should not be getting upset with you or guilting you when you don't want to have sex. You should sit him down and have a serious talk with him about it. Tell him you do like having sex just bot as often as him and he needs to respect  that. He can always masturbate when your not in the mood. If that isn't going to work for him than you 2 may just not be compatible.

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You guys just might not be compatible tbh. I doubt his sex drive is just going to change.  You guys should have an honest conversation about what your expectations are.

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Tell him “I like having sex with you, but I don’t want to have sex all the time”.

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Talk to him. My husband and i have been together 10 years and he wants to have sex everyday. I do most days want to have sex. Sounds like he has a higher sex drive than you.

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Because his libido is higher

Why does my boyfriend always want to have sex?

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