Okay so for context, my period is due anytime now. For the last week my bf has been paranoid that I’m late even tho I’m not, my cycles aren’t consistent enough for me to be worried until I’m a week “late”, and mine was due two days ago. I’ve got other PMS symptoms tho so I know it’s coming. I told him, it’s not a problem I’m not worried.

So I always get super horny right before my period, idk about you guys.

Last night I’m laying on top of him while he browses reddit, I start rubbing up on him, kissing his neck, and he just says “babe you’ve gotta get your period”, and I told him it’ll come when it comes, I can’t control it, but then the mood was definitely... killed. I rolled off of him and then he went to the bathroom to get ready for bed and stuff and he locked the door, which he almost never does but keep in mind, neither of us ever walk in on each other in the bathroom without asking if we can come in first. We respect each other’s privacy (maybe in a few years we’ll be more relaxed about it, maybe not who knows. We’ve been together for about 9 months). So he locks the door, runs the water (which he does all the time when he’s shitting), but then after like 10 minutes I hear him brushing his teeth and taking is contacts out, then he comes back to bed. I go in, and sorry if TMI but he came into toilet paper then tossed it in the toilet and didn’t flush.

So, with pre-period hormones raging I felt so hurt, so tossed aside. I didnt know what to say so I didn’t say anything.

Now keep in mind, I don’t mind if he masturbates. If I’m not home or not in the mood, idc at all. But what hurt is that I was tryna fuck and he shot me down then did the deed on his own leaving me needing attention but not getting any.

He gets weird about periods sometimes, he doesn’t wanna fuck when I’m bleeding, which is reasonable, but does it sound to you guys like that’s what it was?

Help a PMSing girl out, I’ve been so in my head I convinced myself he’s gonna dump me over this 😂😭