My boyfriend is 20 and I am 18 and we have been dating for 4 years. I work all the time and I also go to school during the day. He doesn’t have a job and occasionally works with his dad. He wants to do all these things but I’m trying to save money and he gets upset. When I do get a night off from work, I want to spend time with him but he wants to go out with his friends and play basketball. He says all the time I want to spend time with you on your next off day but he does the same thing every time. It wouldn’t bother me so much if he didn’t get to hang out with his friends but he hangs out with them nearly every night. It is just so frustrating and confusing and I just don’t know what to do.. please help