Bf and I have had our ups and downs. Been together consistently for 3 years. The dude barely calls or texts anymore. I get it. People get comfortable. But after everything he has done to me, I feel that he needs to be the one to initiate conversations and what not. Sure I text him daily..I get minimal content back. That's just how he is. So tonight I waited forever for him to at least say hello or goodnight. And at 8 pm I said " night". He responds immediately "night" back. So I was like wtf. So I said " u really gonna need to start calling me sometime" and he said " baby, the phone works both ways but ok".

Dude.I am 30. You are 33.

I would initiate more but damn he answers with 'sup' and the texts are basically one worded. Makes me feel like he needs to contact me and not the other way around. Anyone get me?