My husband and I are still very early on our ttc journey, we've been trying for about 4 months and I'm just wondering how long should we wait to have him checked out (like for his sperm count) I realize it might take awhile for us to conceive but I would feel better knowing now vs. trying forever to get no where.

Also those who have been trying for awhile what helps you stay positive on your ttc journey? I understand I haven't been trying all that long but I'm more so asking for tips on staying positive even though I'm not getting my bfp as quick as I would like