so i had previously come to an “agreement” with my baby’s father. we had a long talk. i never wanted us to be apart but he chose another woman over us long story short. i never wanted supervised visits (still don’t) and never wanted to have to file for child support (still don’t). i just wanted us to be good friends and parents (still do).

but he decided to block my number out of nowhere. i realized when i tried sending a picture of our son. we were civil and on good terms. i know it was the girl he’s with because she’s done this before. but it was before we had a kid. i could go in about how insecure and toxic she is and how i hate the person he becomes with her but i won’t.

so prior to this he said he wanted basically what i did. that he could come and see his son and we could be friends and he would give me money but just didn’t want to go through the legal stuff. well all that just went out the window when he blocked my number. i’m just shocked actually. no more excuses left.

so i currently have the website for child support open. we’re both young and that’s one reason i didn’t want to file. i don’t want to make it harder for him. he works at walmart, he doesn’t make much. he still lives with his dad and can hardly pay $400 rent to him.

i just want to be sure that this is the right choice and i also an curious about the process of taking someone off child support? in case i change my mind. he told me when we had this talk a few weeks ago that he’d “go buy a rope and hang himself” if i did it. siiigh. advice please?