But it makes me appreciate my husband so much more. It breaks my heart reading these posts about boyfriends and husbands being so nasty and unsupportive and all the problems that go on in relationships. I dealt with it too with my ex husband and thought it was normal. I put the good times before the bad and thought it was temporary or that it would pass. It didn’t. The man I’m with now is so incredible I literally could cry thinking about him lol. Don’t settle ladies!!! There is someone out there. Mine came around when I least expected it and honestly at a bad time in my life, but it worked. I could not picture a life without him and I’m so beyond thankful. He made me realize what I deserve. If your guy makes you feel little in any way, girl leave!!! There is no time for that mess.