My fiance and I have two kids, a 2 year old and a one month old. I've been asking my fiance for months now to try and find a first shift job. He said he would and said he even really wants a first shift job and always says how much he hates working the graveyard shift.

So he goes into work Monday night at 6PM and gets out at 6AM. So his last shift for the week ends Saturday at 6AM. When he gets out of work he comes home and goes right to sleep and doesnt get up until it's time for him to leave in the evening. So overall I'm literally on my own with our little ones from Monday morning until Saturday evening when I finally get a little bit of help from him.

He always says hes going to look into putting in job applications at places but never follows through. He doesnt make great money where hes at so it's not like it has to do with the pay and hes said he hates working third but hes not taking any steps to change that?

On top of it, I've expressed to him many times, especially more recently that I really would like for him to be home in the evenings because I could really use the help. I've been experiencing some ppd and need an extra hand now and again and hes just not here. Also I will be going back to work soon myself and feel like I'm going to be drained physically and mentally from the lack of help and support from him and its getting to the point where if he doesnt even attempt to find a first shift job then I may just leave. I feel like I'm doing it on my own anyways so why am i staying here? I could move on with my parents and get some help.