Story/ rant

Never knew I would post about this 🤦🏼‍♀️

I never knew I had a crazy mother in law 😂

My sister in law kept bugging my husband for his log in to our bank account and we were like wtf why , NO.

All because we told my husbands mother we wouldn’t be able to give her 1000 dollars when our taxes come in...

we over her nothing at all but she owes us over 7 grand because we keep getting her out of sticky situations

My husband finally said no ( all on his own I didn’t care about giving his mom money )

We have one kid and one on the way and my husband is most likely getting med board so we will be driving 4000 miles back home and need to save as much as we can.

That’s a little back story

This morning my husband daughter and I all wake up feeling like death we all have a very bad cold virus and the beginning of strep throat

We get a call at 5 and my mil is telling my husband he needs to give her our bank info so she can log in ... he was like hell no why do you need that

She said it’s not fair to keep money from her when she knows we have a lot ( he’s in the army he gets paid jack and I’m a stay at home mom )

She then says oh well just give me what you have in savings .. he explains that’s going all towards our son because we haven’t bought him anything at all yet and I’m getting induced in 8 weeks

She says well I have stuff here for him so you guys are fine ... ( we won’t be giving birth in Florida at all my husband is still stationed in Alaska until his med board and those take forever)

She says ok well give me 1000 out of your tax return ( she also tried claiming our daughter on her tax return to get more money but didn’t know her social )

She gets all pissy when my husband say she has to wait until he is out of the military to help her.

Then she gets my sil involved .. sil says just give mom the money since you guys have it you can always make more ... we have enough saved for all of the baby things we need for our son and daughter.

She gets pissed and says we need to save better , so hubby tells her we legit just gave his mom 500 last month because she was crying and begging for it

His sister then says well give her more that wasn’t enough 😡😡😡

Like wtf so later on I have an obgyn appointment and she tells me oh let’s induce you in 8 weeks because he’s measuring 3 weeks ahead. Great less time to get everything together

His mom then blows up his phone saying since she gave birth to him she owns everything he does .. we’re in our 20’s and he hasn’t been living with her since he was 17

So he says no not true she then says she will kill her self and hunt him down and says she’s having a panic attack and all that nonsense since we won’t give her money hubby said what ever and he was done with letting her control his life

We have so much going on because hubby had a mini stroke and has had seizures since then and she gave no fucks and wants everything to her self so she said that he doesn’t have a mom anymore and he said fine you won’t be in my family’s life and she got pissed again and said she would get our child taken from us because we are unfit because we have no money 😂😂 and I was like we have money just not for you ( I didn’t say that to her but I said it to hubby 🤷🏼‍♀️😂😂) and now she is basically out of our lives

I’m only posting this anonymously because I know people on here and they will start silly drama

Let me add she has three jobs and doesn’t pay for her house because she lives with her boyfriend ( and no she doesn’t use drugs) she’s just money hungry