Okay I need to rant real quick because I am upset.

I think my step son has high functioning autism.

My husband agrees. But his mom says he’s just shy and she’s working on getting him better. She’s never taken his to see a phycologist. She took him for an annual exam and they told her he had depression. But as far as we know she didn’t do anything about it.

Today. She contacted us and told us that because of changes we recently made he is not okay. That because of these changes that we had made we don’t think about him and now it’s a problem. I’ve been with my husband for 5 years and let me tell that these 5 years his son(my step son) can not have a conversation with me. Or ask me for a simple glass of milk. We are supposed to get him every other weekend. But my husband works Tuesday-Saturday. So what we were doing was picking him up Saturday mornings and dropping him off sunday evening. Still every other weekend. My husband works evenings. So he would stay with me for a couple of hours and we go to sleep. And apparently his mother doesn’t want that because I don’t acknowledge him. And now my husband can only see him on sundays. And she’s saying she’s going to court cause he doesn’t see his son.

I’ve tried my best to talk to my step son and create a relationship but I literally have to fish words out of him and it’s soo hard. But I’m trying. What makes me soo angry and annoys me is that he goes and tell his mom that I don’t do anything for him, that I don’t talk to him. I’m at an end point. I don’t know what to do.