Every guy I’ve been with has gotten hard during making out, or touching, any foreplay really..the guy I’m with now doesn’t and idk if it’s normal. Like during all the foreplay, nothing happened until I started giving him a blowjob. I guess he needs to actually be touched for it to happen but it was surprising to me. Also, I kept having to give him blowjobs during the sex to keep him hard. He said it had nothing to do with me..it’s just how he’s always been but I can’t help but feel bad 🙃