Hey everyone

I am in desperate need of some advice. I have been a stay at home mom for over 3 years now a decision my fiancé and I made together. Currently him and I are going through an extremely rough patch which might end up in a break up. Since we’ve been going through this he’s constantly thrown the fact that I can’t financially support our children in my face. Does it make me a bad mom because we made this decision and now I’m in the situation where I can’t financially support them? and if this goes as far as having to go to court will that make me look bad?