DDLG and actually being a parent

My fiance and i have been together 5 years. We used to have crazy insane sex and over time things kind of died down. I am 8 months pregnant with our first child. And because of massive amounts of stress we have not had much intimacy. I have been left through this pregnancy feeling ugly etc and feeling like any moves i make he doesn't have much interest. He will say his sugars are off ( he is diabetic )or hes tired etc. I have spent a lot of money on lingerie.. and didn't get to use it much because i developed cholestasis of pregnancy. So we don't have sex much now because i am extremely uncomfortable.

I am frustrated because when we were first together he used to call me princess or pet names and now, it's just dear. We lived the whole ddlg thing and it made me fall in love with him more. But as i said with stress and new things ( bought a house last week am moving this weekend and i am being induced on weds feb 12) lol what a mind fuck.

Our house has a jacuzzi in it and i would love to have a romantic night with really hot sex before delivery day. There are some things that he will say that make me think the spark is still there i left him a voicemail once while he was at work and he told me just hearing my voice turned him on. Or just talking on the phone for drives home is soothing to him.

I know this post is all over the place. But i want that bond back so desperately though with our son coming into the picture. How is it that you still live out your lifestyle /kinks while being an actual parent?