So I’m 36 weeks with my rainbow baby... i have a 3 year old son and now we’re having a daughter.. my sister really wanted to throw me a shower, but i kept telling her it was okay it’s my second kid and she didn’t have too... she insisted because it’s a girl and she wanted to, so i agreed and now it’s tomorrow...i really appreciate the fact that she did this for me its so thoughtful, and she put so much time into planning....but I’m a little disappointed at the amount of people who rsvpd....i really thought more people would come, and then i looked at my registers today and barely anything was purchased from them..and it’s all stuff we need nothing big because we still have all the big stuff, but it’s bottles,burp clothes, pacifiers, some clothes, Ect.... i am grateful and appreciative of everyone coming who is supporting our new little one and i guess i expected it to be not much turn out due to it being my second hence why i didn’t want one in the first place.. sorry i just needed to vent ive been very emotional lately

update** had shower today it was very nice my sister did a beautiful job...small turn out like 9 people, so that was disappointing and smaller then i thought but still appreciated everyone who took the time... we got a tonnnnn of baby girl clothes, not one box of diapers or wipes and only 2 people bought off the registry, my mom blurted out the babies name which we weren’t telling the entire family just grandparents and my sister knew, so that was upsetting.. but it was a nice day of celebrating baby girl and that’s all i can ask for