So here’s what happened. My ma took me to get a mani/pedi for my birthday. This has been scheduled all week and my husband was like “oh go enjoy yourself babes! Have a good time” I mentioned to him that we would probably go to a store or two afterwards and maybe grab lunch. I left around 10:30am and didn’t get back until about 4:30. My mom and I went to the farmers market and a hair salon for a consultation. In the meantime, my husband picked up his nephews to play with our son so my mom and I picked up a couple of pizzas. When I walk in the door, my husbands attitude SUCKS. He gives me this fake peck on the lips and proceeds to start arguing with me in front of the kids. I just look at him like he has 20 heads. He’s yelling and cursing saying how it shouldn’t take 8 hours to get my nails done 😐. First off.... I wasn’t gone for 8 hours and EVEN IF I WAS, WHY ARE YOU CLOCKING ME WHILE IM OUT WITH MY MA???

I work about 60 hours a week, cook, clean and I never ever go out. My husband on the other hand goes out 3-4 times a week. Moves around a lot and comes and goes as he pleases. He accuses me of cheating... went as far as saying he doesn’t trust my Ma and he thinks she would set me up with someone..... 😑😑😑. I told the kids to go in my sons room and close the door. He keeps going.... telling me to go be the female I know how to be. Where the fuck is all of this coming from?????!! So he ultra stressed me out and I said I needed a cigarette. I had promised him I would quit smoking. I haven’t smoked heavily in years... now I only smoke a cigarette if I’m super stressed out. Probably 3-4 times a year. I’ve smoked 2 already this year. He proceeded to tell me I’m pathetic and weak minded.... that I need a vice to help me cope and it makes me weak and how disgusting I am for it. I told him, these situations right here is what makes it hard for me quit fully. He then said he hates that he married me.... sigh. Ok then. In my mind, I’m just like get the fuck away from me then. He causes all of my stress. Then he went further and said I should let our son live with my mom, he would be better off without me. At this point, I walked out and bought my cigarettes. Right now, it’s fuck him for ruining my otherwise perfect day and being a dick over nothing. I want a divorce now. Some things you just don’t say dude.