I’ve been dating this guy for almost a year now. He says he loves me. And for the most part he acts like he does.. tries taking care of me, gets me things, hugs and kisses me so much, treats me like he doesn’t want anything bad to happen, etc. But when he gets angry, he sometimes takes things out on me. Like if we’re driving and there’s ppl driving dumb and we’re trying to get somewhere or we can’t find the place we’re going, and I can’t tell him the directions fast enough, he’ll snap on me. Or if I don’t answer a question the way he wanted he’ll get angry. Awhile ago he was playing video games while we were cuddling and I had my phone and arm resting on his chest while scrolling through stuff. And he lost or something so in anger he kinda hit by phone and arm off his chest. Also a few hours ago he was handing me a bowl of chicken Alfredo and while he was doing this I guess he dropped the spatula or something and went to catch it with his other hand so some of the hot Alfredo sauce got on him but I didn’t know. So he yelled at me saying “take the fucking bowl” so I quickly went. And then he proceeded to wash off his hand in the sink while saying “fuck” . I know that was my fault but I didn’t know.. I’m just not sure what to think about these things. Overall he seems to care about me.. so why does he treat me so poorly sometimes..