i’m 16 and bisexual. my friend, who likes me, is a lesbian. i’ve recently found out that she’s transphobic & homophobic. i don’t understand how, unless it’s internalized homophobia, but that doesn’t seem to be it. she won’t explain why. she says she doesn’t support the entire lgbt community. she knows i’m bi and doesn’t support that. i cant wrap my head around it. how can she be a lesbian but homophobic?