Ever since I had my daughter sex has been a come and go thing with my husband. It tarts to get better and then just stops. Yesterday I told him I wanted to be with him sexually and he wasn’t in the mood. He thought I went to drop one of the kids off and I walked into the bedroom, he through the blanket over himself and I asked if he was master bating. He told me no. So being me, I flung the cover back and confirmed. I asked him if he was watching porn on his phone and he said yes. I asked him why would you rather do that when you know I want to be with you so bad and he said he likes the fantasy. I’m still chubby from my daughter and believe it or not I’m 13 weeks with twins.

I started crying and told him I hated him. His answer to everything is he should move out.

How do I handle this?