My cousin is getting married and she’s been texting me and saying she’s sending the invitations soon and asking if I received it. I finally got it and I let her know. She addressed the invitation to me and had a plus one option. When I told her I received it, she called me and told me the plus one is for my infant son. So basically she’s saying she doesn’t want my boyfriend, who I live with and have been with for three years, to accompany me. I told her I felt disrespected by that as he’s my partner. I know we haven’t been together for long, but our other cousins are bringing dates they aren’t even with. She said she doesn’t want us to break up one day and have him in the photos. He doesn’t have to be in photos? I don’t get it. I told her I won’t attend without him and now my aunt and uncle and cousins are pissed off at me.

I will explain further if needed.

As for why I think she doesn’t want him there is because she doesn’t like me. She knows our family would be mad at her if she didn’t invite me so she did this to make me angry. My boyfriend keeps to himself. He’s never said anything rude to her. In fact, my cousins soon to be husband has gone out with my boyfriend a few times and they like one another. My cousin always thought I was a slut and doesn’t “approve” of unwed people living together. Even though her and her fiancé have lived together for two years lol. That rule only applies to certain people apparently.