Names and nicknames/ Rant

Sadie

I am not a huge fan of nicknames at all. I'm having a boy and naming him Tobias . Everytime I tell someone his name they say "so hes going to be called Toby?" I just don't get why people just can't call him by his name. I have people in my family that still say they are going to call him Toby anyways. My Grandmother wants to nickname him TY because of my dislike of Toby. I just want to use his name. Has anyone else dealt with this before?