would you stop seeing/talking to him?

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lets say you were dating a guy for a few months and he didn’t buy you anything or take you out anywhere for valentines day would you stop talking to him? 
and by dating.. i mean you guys are  only seeing each other exclusively but your not in a committed relationship yet.

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So I have an unpopular opinion and I usually don’t share it on here bc it sounds shallow asf. But my love language is gifts. It’s just who I am. I’ve tried being with a guy who never bought me anything and I literally felt unloved and unwanted. I tried I really did, but it just didn’t work. Everyone has something that they need from a partner. If yours is gifts like mine is, find someone who shows their love with gifts, dates etc. They’re out there. That’s how my husband is, he loves buying me things, loves taking me on dates, always wants to spoil me and I’ve never been happier in a relationship if I’m being honest. To some that may sound very shallow and it’s fine. It’s not anyone else’s business. But the thing is you have to find someone who shows their love in that way! If your love language is gifts and you get with a guy who doesn’t show their feelings for someone that way, he will end up thinking you’re shallow and you’ll feel unloved and it just won’t work out. Been there.

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No because that's a stupid reason to break up with someone. However if you feel like that's a legitimate reason to break it off then maybe you should because you're obviously not ready for a relationship with this person.

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It’s just another day. Spending money shouldn’t be a requirement for dating.

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That sounds bratty and entitled to me.

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I mean.... I’m a bit confused by your post. Your exclusive, but not committed? What does that mean???
Aside from that, I’ll use my current relationship to answer. Yes, if my fiancé didn’t make ANY effort on Valentine’s Day it would bother me. I’d definitely be hurt! But he knows that about me. He knows I like to celebrate different things: birthdays, Christmas, Valentine’s Day. So......if he knows that about me, then yes, he should make the effort. I also make the effort and make sure he knows how much I love and care about him. For me, small gifts are a way to show that care for me/him.
Now having said all that, would I break up with him, no. That’s a bit much. But I would share my frustrations and hope we can fix it moving forward.

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How shallow can one be? Maybe the dude doesn't like hallmark holidays. Maybe he doesn't have much money right now. The girl could plan something or take him out. I'm a firm believer in love should be shown every day, not just one day a year that's deemed valentines day.

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Was it discussed? I don’t think it’s totally his responsibility to make plans.

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If you really want to pursue a long term relationship with him, then my advice is to just express what you want in your relationship to him. It’s still so fresh. Plus in his defense, he can’t read your mind. My fiancé was the same and I was feeling like you are in the beginning. I would get him nice things like cards and print outs of us, nice things from Macy’s and it’s not like i expected anything in return but at the same time I really wanted to feel as special as I thought I was making him feel. Now we always do for eachother. Whenever we can. And we’re engaged. So just express what you want. Fuck others’ opinions. A girl wants what a girl wants.

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No, if I want something I'll buy it for myself. I don't care about men buying me things, that's not what makes a good man.

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And that's why I don't celebrate Valentine's day wasting what could be a good relationship because heaven forbid y'all don't get floors chocolate and a stupid stuffed animal one day a year

would you stop seeing/talking to him?

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