I get so frustrated when my mom or grandparents basically reprimand me for raising my voice to my two and a half year old. It makes me feel like such a shitty parent. I here it almost on a daily when im either face timing them or visiting them. It could be as simple as me asking my aon the same thing 10 times and finally raising it a little not to the point where its to loud. If i do that i always apologize after all we are all human. But 9/10 its just a strict tone to get him to see i mean business and im basically yelled at. Its so upsetting bc all im trying to do is teach my child limits and protect him and raise a young man who is respectful but everyone else was to make me feel terrible about the way i raise him. When they did the same exact thing to me growing up. I actually feel like im less strict on him than they were on me sometimes. All i want to do is feel like a good mom and i do up until they make those comment and i try not to let it bother me but today is one of those days it is. I tried talking to them but they just dont seem to listen to how it actually makes me feel.