I need perspective
So this might be a longish post but I need some opinions. I’m dating my best friend, we’ve been besties for over a year and dating almost 4 months. And at first everything was amazing (yes I know, honeymoon phase) and I know that that doesn’t always last forever. But recently it’s been like I’m just a bother to him when I’m around. I see him everyday so once in a while he asks for a “day off” so he can just have some “him” time and I don’t mind that at all. But it’s getting to where he wants “days off” like every day. And all he does is play his video games (which again, I don’t mind at all) but when he plays them he puts on his headphones and talks to his group of friends and completely ignores me for hours on end and will get annoyed with me if I interrupt him to show him a meme or tell him something. And I know his life doesn’t revolve around me, but it’s like he’s more excited to talk and play with his online friends than to see or talk to me. I’ll ask him if it’s okay to come over and he’ll be like “sure but I can’t guarantee you’ll get attention” and I just don’t know what to do. I’ve tried talking to him but he just says “I just like my space, it’s just how I am”. I try to give him all the space he wants and not nag or bug him. But I’m just starting to feel so bothersome and like a burden/annoyance to him and I don’t know what to do to fix it. Am I overreacting and should just let it fix itself over time or am I doing something wrong? Any advice is appreciated♥️
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