So I’m a freshman and I just got my first boyfriend. My brother met him and told me I was way out of his league and I found myself defending him with but he makes me laugh and he makes me feel good. I just realized I don’t think I’ve ever thought he was cute. I just like having someone to hold hands with and flirt with. I think I like him as a friend. I feel like I’m using him because he’s obviously very committed and really likes me. I don’t want to lie to him but I also don’t want to break up with him yet. We’re friends with almost all the same people and it’d literally be impossible to avoid him. I want to talk to a friend about it but I can’t. I don’t want to hurt anyone but I also can’t lie to him all the time. I hope our relationship just fizzles out like most freshman’s do but he seams to think we’re going to be together for a long time. I’m just really worried and I need advice