No erection

So I’m a senior in highschool I’m 18 I talk to this guy who pops pills and smokes weed he popped a pill last night and today we finally planned on having sex it took me 40 minutes to get to his house snd I got lost so I get their we smoke mind u he got drunk and was off a pill last night we planned on having sex safe and we were done smoking I asked him can I suck his dick to get him on hard and he said no wait Till it get on hard alil then I kept asking and getting told no and like 20 minutes went by he killed my high LOWKEY and thatsnever happened to me before I was so lost I thought he wasnt into me but he was giving off that type of energy otp and all that like he liked me he’s not my bf or anything I js wanna know what u guys think happened I’ve had sex with other guys and this never happens they usually are already semi erect or fully erect and when I take my pants off they get erect all the way I’m js lost