She welcomed my guy friends that were black and Mexican with open arms. My boyfriend is white and she met him at ihop then when he tried coming to the door one day to speak to her she wouldn’t open the door. She didn’t do that with my guy friends. So every time I ask her she makes excuses about it. The guy friend that took me to see a movie I didn’t know for that long. So she would never give a straight answer on why she did it to my boyfriend. She tried saying it’s because she didn’t know him when she met him before at the ihop.

She sent him a rude text because I took a job that paid more money and he helped me get the job. She doesn’t like to acknowledge she hasn’t been the warmest towards him. She says oh but I baked banana bread for them. Then she’ll say something rude.

She tries bringing up the things I say because I’ve been frustrated with him. I’ve told him about how I felt so he knows what I say. My mom loves throwing my issues in my face. Lovely right?

If you do it to her she gets mad because now it’s on her.

Edit

Well I keep her at a distance now because I don’t know if she would try to take me to court for not letting her see her grandson if I cut her off. I was wrong to think I could go to her for motherly advice. I don’t tell her anything now.

She has threatened to sue me for rights if I even considered adoption. I just don’t know what to do cause no one else is going to call her out on the bs she does. If I cut her off everyone except my grandpa would follow her. Then I wouldn’t really have a family outside of my bf and baby.