For about 6 months I was having casual sex with this guy. In December two days before my birthday I found out I was pregnant and he was pretty scared. As much as I wanted to keep it I knew I couldn’t, and I knew we both couldn’t afford it. I got an abortion. He was ok with that and so was I for a bit but then I started to hate him, and I have no idea why.

I stopped reply to his text so for a few days, but he kept texting me about every week or so to ask how I was doing. I knew I hated him, but after awhile I started to reply.

Ok but to the point about a four weeks ago he opened up and told me about what was going on in his life. About three weeks ago he asked me to borrow money ($150 to be exact) because was stranded somewhere.

I was down to my absolute last only had about $55 so I told him I didn’t have that kind of money rn, but I could give him $50. So I sent it to him.

He said he’d pay me back in a week and a half (it’s been almost three already I think) and I haven’t heard from him since. What do I do?? Text him and ask for my money?? Wait til he text first?? Help. I’m only 19, and I make $16 an hour but recently my job cut my hours, and I could use that $50 rn lol. Any thought on what I should do??

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Thanks ladies for all the advice :) I’ve decided I’m just going to let him keep it. I still haven’t heard anything from him, but actually think he may have moved away. Anyway lesson learned. I just feel like now it’s going to be hard to let people borrow money..again thanks!