i saw my ex holding a girl at a concert last night. it wouldn’t bother me usually but we broke up like a few weeks ago and he hung out with her while we were dating. that means he would have to have been talking to her while we were together. we never had the title of “dating” but we were exclusive to each other, and the reason things ended was because he kept going from saying he wanted to just be friends to wanting to be more within the the same few weeks. would it be bad to ask if he’s dating her? usually it would but in this case he would have been talking to us both at the same time. and that would make sense that he was unsure of his feelings towards me cause he was “choosing between the both of us”