So Im only about 7 weeks.. my man is deployed and just left about 3 weeks ago. He’s going to be gone for 6 months. He wants to wait to find out the gender until he comes home which I’ll be a little over 6 months... is it wrong of me to want to know ASAP? I really really don’t want to wait that long, this is our first child.. any ideas? I’d feel bad if I found out and he didn’t but at the same tome I want to decorate the nursery and gradually buy things so we’re not buying everything last minute. I don’t know...