I need help ladies

I need some of the ladies who experienced this or are nurses or doctors here to help me and guide me what to do, where to go, I had laparoscopic surgery last year due to ectopic pregnancy, since then my periods are havoc, first period was fine, second and third were rusty red like old blood all the time, fifth was late for 5 days, this one showed up early 2 days and it was heavy and lots of clots and it started on 3rd this month, I had dark brown 3 days ago and nothing since then, but every time I go and do number two and push a little bit I get pink discharge, honestly I’m freaking out and I’m so upset I cry all the time, I have to mention that I’m on metformin one month because last December they found me insulin resistant, my tummy this past 3 days is very upset and down there on my pelvis I have pain, on my laparoscopic surgery my left tube was removed and since then I have pain on my left side where the ovary is, but every time I get my period the first two days I have an excruciating pain on my left side even pain killers don’t help and lately I have really bad headaches like my eyes start to hurt, like that bad they are, please help me, I did in December Pap smear and everything was fine, when they did the surgery they found inflammation on my left side and said it’s possibly from chlamydia or ghonorea, I did took the treatment for that, they tested my husband too for that but he had nothing and said he doesn’t have to take anything, I don’t understand that because it’s an std and we have unprotected sex because we are ttc, and since the surgery I’m getting lot of infections, please please help, I really can’t take this pain anymore, thank you in advance