My husband and I were both virgins when we got married 5 years ago and we still have a pretty great sex life. We have sex all the time and are pretty happy but we have never had oral sex.

Like I don’t really have any desire to have oral sex but people talk about it like it’s so great and I’m wondering if it’s strange that I don’t want to do it.

My husband and I have pretty great communication and I have even talked about it with him. He is all for trying it but he doesn’t mind if we don’t and I just can’t bring myself to do it. Either way, him doing me or me doing him.

I figure we will be married for a long time and have plenty of time to try it one day lol

Is this unheard of for a couple that’s been together 5 years? Just curious! Haha